What are some signs a guy is about to come?

I can't tell when my partner is about to come.

Nov 02, 2021

Everyone is different, so there are no universal signals to look out for. Communicating with your partner will help. If you want to use withdrawal for birth control but your partner is unsure what his signals are, practice with a condom first, or it might be fun to mess around without penetrative sex to learn his “I’m getting close” quirks.

Still not working?

Still not working?

If you don’t want to get pregnant now and your guy isn’t a pro at pulling out, you may want to use a more effective method. A few that don’t require an action in the moment are the IUD, the implant, and the shot. Double up with a condom for STI protection.

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Related methods

Dive in and learn all the details about these related birth control methods.

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Withdrawal (pull-out method)
Very effective if you do it correctly (but that can be hard to do). Hormone-free, zero cost, zero side effects.
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Implant (Nexplanon)
Super effective, lasts for years, low-maintenance, and private.
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Birth control shot
Very effective if you use it correctly. Lasts for months, is private, and is a good hormonal option for those who can't take estrogen.
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IUD
Super effective, lasts for years, low-maintenance, and private (though some partners can feel the strings). You can choose hormonal or non-hormonal.
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Condom
Very effective if you use them correctly, but not super effective the way most people use them. Hormone free, protect against STIs, and don't require a prescription, but they do require work.